Developed by Thorn and adapted by Facebook, these Stop Sextortion caregiver resources are for anyone seeking support and information related to sextortion.
Your teens are safer because of your support and guidance through all of life's challenges, including while they are online. There are a few things you can do to help your teen avoid getting into tricky (and sometimes dangerous) situations like sextortion.
This is hard, but you're already doing the right thing by reading this guide. Your next steps: Talk about it with your teen(s), then talk about it with your friends.
Talking about sexting is an easy entry point, and it is language that young people understand. Sexting is sharing or receiving sexually explicit messages or nude or partially nude images, usually online. Here is some language to help you get started:
Young people experiencing sextortion can be scared of getting in trouble. They may be worried about embarrassing their parents, or that they'll get suspended from school, judged by friends or in trouble with the police. These fears can even be suggested by the abuser to maintain control over them, and sadly, this does happen. These fears keep young people silent, and that has led to undersirable outcomes.
Your fear and frustration is normal, but your teens need to know that you'll always get through tough situations together. Even if you think they know you'll support them, having these conversations can make a big difference in them sharing their experiences with you when something feels off or goes wrong.
Being a parent can be a difficult job. Keeping up with the fast-paced changes in today's technology is hard. Download new apps and try them out. Ask your teen what their favourite apps are. The more you talk about this with your teen, the easier it will be to understand if something bad is happening, and the easier it will be for them to share uncomfortable situations with you.
We encourage you to explore our resources for parents and families. Whether you have a Facebook or Instagram account – or your teen has one – we've come up with some handy links, tips and tricks to help you get the most out of your experience and help your teen navigate their experience.
By educating each other, we can better protect our youth. Share Thorn's "Stop Sextortion" video with your teens and your friends. The more people know about some of the ways sextortion happens, the better equipped they'll be to handle these situations.